When you are actually engaging in the act, you will enjoy it with enough prior metal prep. Focus on why the experience is pleasurable to you.
Maybe the idea of pleasuring someone is more appealing than having a dong in your mouth. Play it out in your head, and imagine all the reasons why a hard cock in your mouth is arousing and sexy. Mentally prepare yourself for what’s about to happen beforehand. That’s why getting into the “giving head state-of-mind” is essential… Even if giving head is not your favourite activity - learning to like it is key to ensuring both of you enjoy sex to is maximum potential. In any event, great sex is the result of comprise. Even if he has an A+ cock, maybe you are the type of guy who is just not that into giving head, but prefer to receive it. If you aren't enjoying sucking his dick, he will probably sense your disinterest - and start to wonder if there is something wrong with him. If you are enjoying yourself, most likely he is as well… Pleasure is usually the product of reciprocity. This will build pleasure, anticipation, and take his mind of any insecurities he may have.
Learning to enjoy and extend foreplay may be key to removing the pressure to perform, and provide alternatives to “traditional” sexual activity.īegin by playing with his erogenous zones: kiss his lips, rub and massage his scotrum, massage and lick his nipples, and gently stimulate his perineum. Some guys, whether its due to physical or mental ailment, cannot perform penetrative sex. Taking some extra time to enjoy your partner's body, mind, and soul - prior to deep throating him, will go along way to improve your overall experience.įoreplay can simply be defined as the set of activities that guys can use to arouse and excite, before penetrative sex - either orally or anally. This builds anticipation, and helps take your mind of the immediate need to perform. Key to relaxing, and improving your performance during sex is to maximize foreplay prior to the main event. Part of the struggle is getting into the right mind-space during sex, and learning the art of self-love and acceptance. Must of us feel the pressure to be better at some point in our lives… Is my cock hard enough? Is it big enough? Can I stay hard long enough? Is my penis good looking enough? We live in a society where the expectations placed on men to perform sexually often result in performance anxiety. Get harder and hotter with extended foreplay Keep it interesting by switching it up.Ģ. Flip him over and eat his ass out, then go back to his cock. Take control and make the experience a little unpredictable. Tease his penis with a couple of licks, and then return to making out. Focus on kissing, body to body contact, touching, cock-on-cock play. Give your man a preview of what you have in store for him. If you give everything in the first few seconds, there will be little left to the imagination.
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To build anticipation and heighten pleasure, don’t go full throttle from the get go. Part of what makes giving head so hot is the build up, the anticipation of releasing his hard cock from his underwear, as you slowly tease his tip with your tongue - until you finally take the whole cock in your mouth. Giving head should last more than 10 seconds So gear up head queens, here are my top 14 tips for giving head that surely help both giver and receiver make the most of the experience: 1. This will go along way in improving your overall sex life. To enjoy oral sex, learning a bit more about it can help you get in the right headspace when it comes time to go down on your man. Sometimes one guy is really in the mood for dick while the other, not so much. If we are in the mood - there is nothing hotter than a hot throbbing cock in your mouth. Most of us however fall somewhat in the middle. Some guys NEVER enjoy giving blowjobs, while other guys can’t get enough of it.
Maybe you enjoyed it a lot more than you expected - or maybe you were a bit put off, and it took you a while to get back into it. The first time you sucked dick, it probably didn't go as expected.